I think you're both taking it too far guys.
I agree with Six that even in a game, you shouldn't act like a total bad person. Basically, for your fun, you're spoiling the fun for other people, which in my book is still bad, whether it's allowed or not... It's like stealing candy from a kid, you're making sure they can't protect themselves, and then you take their candy (villages) because it's just a game and you'll have more fun by doing so.
So basically: Both of you: shut it! I'm kinda irritated by how both of you keep going on and on and get more and more extreme...